Looking For a ‘Healthy’ Partner

For both men and women, selecting a dating partner can be a complex and somewhat frightening issue. It is difficult to know whether or not your date is an entirely healthy person – meaning, no drug or alcohol addictions, no mental-illness issues (or even hang-ups), no criminal history, no black marks on their financial records. They should also be fully recovered from any damage done from previous relationships.

Are You Worth Waiting For?

Once you’ve reached the age of 35, you will find that only half of the available dating pool is considered “healthy”. Not all issues of dating health are unresolvable. Far from it; pretty much, everyone goes through a period in their life when they just aren’t decent dating material. Often, one’s problems will go away on their own, whether they are family issues or financial issues, or something related to their actual physical well being.

Forging Ahead Together

Sometimes there are career-oriented matters that take care of themselves (i.e., working on a degree or muddling through an internship or apprenticeship). Such people are usually fine for dating, since there is a good chance they will live up to their potential. Certainly, after having dated and eventually gotten married, couples will face these same issues. By then, though, a couple has each other to turn to, and they are better able to clear those kinds of hurdles as a dedicated team.

The biggest difference about dating today (as opposed to a generation ago) is that women are just as likely to be career-driven, and successful, as men. This changes many of the old dating concepts vis a vis the way women view a potential mate. Men are now weighed on the scale of asset versus liability, which is a radical departure from the way their mothers viewed their fathers.

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